It sounds like you answered your own question. If you belong to a trade association that 'puts on' trade shows, they do it for a reason.
But, like the other answers posted, there are a lot of other considerations. Are these shows the places that buyers visit to HANDLE the products? A picture of a toy is not the same thing as picking it up and playing with it. A picture of a helicopter is not the same thing as climbing inside it and feeling the space in the cockpit.
And the costs of exhibiting can be significant. Aside from travel and shipping, lodging, meals, booth equipment, signs etc. you need to think about exposure at the show. It doesn't do much good to be there and not have anybody stop and talk to you.
Charles Allen is probably the 'guru' in event/trade show marketing, you can get his newsletter free at
www.cwallengroup.comThe 'plus' sides of event marketing:
Targeted audience, actual buyers who have probably paid money to be there
Enclosed space, you are inside four walls with your buyers
Your are able to go FACE TO FACE with your product in sight, even in hand.
Good Luck!